The Bank Can’t Foreclose On You If You Don’t Have Debt

charlie_imageThis article became a real life realization to me in 2008 when my Dad announced to our family that the bank was foreclosing on his 10,000 head pig operation and 500 acre farming operation. Like I’ve blogged before, this event had rippling affects on our family. In March, of that year, we all thought it would pass and Dad & Mom would emerge out the other side. However, the Lord wouldn’t have it that way.

Nope…not that simple.


Initially, as he went through this, I had a lot of anger feelings towards the bank and landlords. The feeling of how my dad had worked so hard – for 34 years – with dirt in his finger nails and a sore farmers back. How could this happen? It wasn’t fair. Those feelings quickly moved from anger to questioning: “what could have been different?”

That is when the Lord said to me, “The bank can’t foreclose on you if you don’t owe them any money.” It was that “ah-ha” moment that hit me like Captain Obvious flew in!

Leaving a legacy

scan0029 (2)I’ve learned a lot from people who have lived a life of debt and who were also good financial stewards. In looking at both scenarios, I see a big differentiation in how debt is used. For the debt-free man, his attitude of debt is one that will go into debt at last resort, but wants to pay it off super quick. My grandpa described it as having a sickness. A disease that he wanted to get rid of his body. (Watch my grandpa and grandma talk about financial matters and living through the Great Depression in my one on one videos)

My Grandpa was one person I would describe as a good financial steward of his money and walked lightly around debt. People in my life that have gotten into debt seemed to easily fall for it. Like it wasn’t a second thought. Kind of like signing up for a credit card at the Target checkout. Often times no second thought is given to it, and the year upon year commitment they are signing up for. For example, taking on a $400,000 mortgage for a lot of people doesn’t take much thought. People are more so dazed and confused by how nice the house, yard, and appliances look, than how the debt is really just an ends to a means. They “want it”, so therefore debt is required.

As I think about each scenario, I think about the statement, “what type of legacy do I want to leave to my wife and kids“? What matters to me? What will people say about me at the end of my life?

Below is a good verse that I really put value in, and try and lead my life by:

“A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.” Proverbs 13:22

The choice of debt

Most often we don’t understand how we got to the point of foreclosure. It shouldn’t come as any shock that foreclosure is the result of a series of 1) going into debt, 2) expenses outweighing income, and 3) not being able to keep up with the interest as a result of #2. In looking at this series, the first step is going into debt. That is why going into debt shouldn’t be such a flippant choice.

The point here is to REALLY consider things before going into debt. If you don’t participate in step #1, then the bank can’t ever foreclose on you! Really think about this for a moment. Seems so obvious, but easily forgotten when we sign up for a jumbo mortgage, buy a new car, or sign up for that credit card at the Target checkout lane.

I would like to hear from some of our readers on people that were an example of good stewards and bad stewards of managing their money. How did they treat debt? What was the differences in their attitude? What drove them?

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  1. Sandy says:

    Awesome post, Charlie. Very cool that your grandparents shared so much wisdom through word and deed, on marriage & finances. One attitude difference I’ve noticed between those that have debt & those that don’t, is focus. For example, people w/debt tend to focus on what they don’t have & what others have. Whereas those who strive to be debt free live in a status of contentment w/what they have. Like you grandmother so wisely put it, “don’t buy it if you can’t afford it”. I also think patience is a key attitude difference, waiting until you can afford a particular item is key to be being debt free & staying debt free.

  2. Charlie says:

    Sandy – I loved what you had to say! Patience is really hard in our society. Especially when you have so much marketing advertisement being thrown at us through internet, tv, and radio. Your statement reminds me a lot of a scene in the movie, Grand Torino, where he says he didn’t accumulate all the tools in his garage over night! If you haven’t seen the movie yet, then I highly recommend it! Jeff would love it too! :)

  3. Great post. I grew up on a farm too and had very similar experiences as my dad ended up losing the farm in bankruptcy. I get so frustrated by how debt has been normalized in our society to the point that people don’t even think about it. Debt is a thief that steals our peace, our freedom, and our future.

  4. Jackie Rose says:

    This is a great post. I have always felt very strongly about staying out of debt. It just isn’t worth it. You can live without the new car, or the bigger house, or the wedding of the century, but once you start down the road of loans and mortgages, it is SO hard to get out of that hole.

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