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10 Fun, Unconventional (and Thrifty) Things You Can Do With Your Significant Other

2013 March 8
by Aaron

aaron_image1Soon my wife and I will be coming up on four years of marriage. And, I’m finding that we don’t always have to be going somewhere or spending a lot of money to enjoy each others company. In fact, some of the best times I’ve had with her haven’t involved doing anything extravagant. I’m sure you’ve found this too in your own relationships.

Although we had to pay for gas – one day my wife and I went and visited her grandma and grandpa’s old farm where she spent some memorable parts of  her childhood at. Fortunately enough – the current resident was game for the idea and gave us a grand tour of the house and property. It was a memorable time and one that didn’t cost much. 



I want to offer a few other fun, unconventional and often free ways to spend with your significant other. Because – when it all gets down to it – isn’t life about the experiences and time we have with our loved ones? (and not so much the money?)

  1. Read your childhood books together. Lately, my wife and I have been doing a fair amount of reading together. I mainly read to her (probably because she loves my deep voice so much – ha!) – but we get a lot of free books that I check out through the library via my Kindle. One of the things I’ve been meaning to do is to read a few of our favorite children books together. Two of my favorite books include, “Here Comes the Strikeout” and “The Little Engine that Could“. While my wife is a fan of the Dr. Seuss books. 
  2. Go through old pictures. I’m sure many of your parents saved a bunch of photos from years past and threw ‘em in an album or large box. My mother did this – and it’s great to go back to them now and then. This is especially something fun to do with a spouse (not to mention your children). If you wanted to make some work out of it – try scanning them in and digitizing / organizing them (okay, maybe I carried that one a little too far).
  3. Paint a picture together. Okay – so this will likely cost the price of a canvas and some paints – but a fun activity to do together is to do a painting together. Even if you aren’t artists – it is neat to see what you both come up and and can help you explore your creative side.
  4. Drive to a nearby town/city or park, then go for a walk. I’m a bit of an explorer at heart – so I always enjoy a good car ride and a chance to see some different scenery. One thing you can do is to check out a nearby town/city and then just go for a walk there. Perhaps you can walk through the downtown or nearby park?
  5. Find the cheapest item. This is a fun way to add some excitement to your grocery shopping trips. When you are there – split up for about 5 or 10 minutes. The person who finds the cheapest item in the grocery store and then brings it back to a designated location after the time limit is up – gets immunity from doing the dishes that night (or whatever your least favorite chore may be).
  6. Count all of the jobs you’ve had. Or roommates you’ve had. Or.. This is kind of a fun conversational thing to do together. One afternoon my wife and I did this – and it took us awhile to list all of the jobs we’d had. It can also be a way to learn more about each other.
  7. Do a little ancestry “research”. Our library offers free access to HertiageQuest.com – a great online resource to look up your ancestors – as you can page through old census logs and other genealogy records. When you find the old handwritten census log of your great grandparents or other relatives – they are often high enough resolution that you can print them out and frame ‘em (but that’s another activity for a later time).
  8. Organize a treasure hunt. Guys – this is a good one for you to do for your lady. She’ll love it – but it will take some time and planning. You can write-up a set of clues to particular locations in your neighborhood (or in the city) and then plant different items at each locale. Then one afternoon, see if your wife can “solve” the treasure hunt. Preferably she finds a little something – like flowers or what have you – at the last location.
  9. Read a devotional together. In lieu of some days we can’t make it to church – my wife and I have been going through a bible study together. It isn’t anything too intimidating – but it connects us with the Lord and centers our life on the “main thing”.
  10. Create a video. With Windows MovieMaker and your own smartphone or digital camera – you can create videos pretty easily today. While I wouldn’t be as game to do this one – maybe you want to create your own music video or a montage of old photos when you were younger. Put music to it – and viola!

There are lots of creative and unique ways to spend with your loved one! I’d love to know some of the thrifty ways you’ve found to spend with your significant other!

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Aaron

Helped start Three Thrifty Guys with his friends Charlie and Mark after being inspired by how they lived their lives “on the thrift”. A designer by day, Aaron was once $40k in debt. After 5 years – he dug himself out and lives to tell about it. Aaron also blogs at the StarTribune

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8 Responses
  1. March 8, 2013

    A friend of mine owns an art gallery and my wife and I used the space for our wedding reception. We decorated the place with sculptures, poetry, and paintings made by our friends. We also included some of our own paintings and even though we’re not artists, we had a lot of fun doing them together. This was five years ago and we still have the paintings we made hanging in our home today.

    Also, the treasure hunt is a great idea. I put together a treasure hunt for my wife and our friends on her birthday and everyone got really into it. She says it’s one of the best birthday parties she’s had.

    • Aaron permalink*
      March 8, 2013

      @Ruser – Oh, clever idea!
      @Judy – Thx ;)

  2. Judy permalink
    March 8, 2013

    Great ideas…thanks for sharing.

  3. March 9, 2013

    My husband and I love to sit on our back porch and watch the sunset. We do buy a nice bottle of wine and we also have dinner outside, that we make, but it is really enjoyable and something to do that is fun and doesn’t cost too much.

  4. March 10, 2013

    We have a spring breeze today, and it’s a perfect day to fly a kite. We bought one as a souvenir a few years back, and take it out once in a while for a date afternoon. Wherever we go, we people watch and make up stories about the folks we see. We come up with some funny stories! The idea from your blog is to communicate with each other that we are doing this TOGETHER and we enjoy each other’s company. That makes it a date any day of the week. GOod ideas, Aaron.

  5. March 13, 2013

    My husband likes cooking so we spend half of the evenings inventing new recipes. I like blowing bubbles so going into the backyard and having a laugh with bubbles for 10 minutes is something I’m always up for when it’s nice outside.

  6. March 20, 2013

    Have a great tax deduction by donating the car or truck to nonprofit.

  7. Donna permalink
    March 26, 2013

    I moved the furniture from in front of our new large screen tv and spread a beach blanket on the floor; Placed a couple of beach chairs with towels over the backs, then made a steak and potato dinner for 2 placing them next to each chair. When my husband arrived at the door from work, I switched on a YOutube video on the tv showing rolling waves on a beautiful beach with soft background music. The look on his face was priceless and we had a great dinner together!

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